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Couples Counselling Weston-super-Mare

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About counselling

What is counselling?

Mental health, to use the current phrase, is getting more focus these days. Everyone seems to be talking about it, and this is a good thing – but what is mental health, or perhaps the lack of it?

We come into the world with the potential to be what is referred to as a ‘fully functioning’ human being, for this is how God created us. However we enter an imperfect world, and these imperfections, especially those we experienced in our early years, had a bearing on how we grew and how we now find ourselves to be in adulthood.

Counselling provides the opportunity for people to spend quality time exploring the feelings and issues which they carry as adults. I believe we an integrated fusion of body, mind and spirit, and each of these is inter-related with the others.  Therefore, if we feel depressed or anxious, or we are sad because we have lost someone we love, it can radically alter the way we live, affect our physical health, and for some even raise very deep existential questions, including questions of faith.

About Human Beings

I believe in the value and uniqueness of each individual. I also believe that within each person there is a core, genuine Self. This is what some might refer to as ‘potential’. That potential can only find fruition if the conditions for growth are just right, but sadly this is often not the case because of the imperfections of the significant people in our lives, the society around us, and so on. Therefore in order to find acceptance and love we modify how we behave , and form a Belief System of learned behaviours.

How does counselling work?

People come to counselling for various reasons. They are often experiencing an inner tension between the real self and the life strategies employed as a result of the Belief System which has been constructed. The counselling work is centred around the creation of a genuine, non-judgemental and empathic therapeutic relationship where there is no agenda. It allows for the real self to have a voice and enables the individual to explore inner tensions and anxieties. This exploration enables the person to realise his/her self-worth and re-assess the various issues and the feelings that exist.

My counselling approach

My approach is based on the Person-Centred model of counselling, which as the name suggests is focussed on the individual or the couple rather on a set agenda of mine. I may also employ techniques from other schools of thought, and will sometimes suggest some creative methods, but that will be talked about in the session. It’s important that you feel safe to talk.

It’s my privilege to help facilitate the exploration of feelings and issues. I do this not by offering solutions or strategies but by offering empathy, encouragement, supportive challenge, and helping to identify links so that hopefully the individual or couple will be able to see things differently.

I call it ‘Pastoral Counselling’ because I feel it is important to allow individuals and couples to explore areas of spirituality if they feel it appropriate. Spirituality forms an important part of who I am, but it is important also to say that I will never aim to persuade anyone to follow any set of beliefs.

Couples counselling

The Person-Centred approach to counselling (as described in the ‘My Approach’ box above) works particularly well for Couples Counselling, where blame is put aside in order to focus on your relationship. Relationships can easily be overlooked, and their importance should not be underestimated. The relationship in this instance is an entity which expresses the coming together of two people – it is more than the sum of the parts, if you like. It needs to be given the chance to express how it feels. One of the keys to this is to get you to look at how well you communicate as a couple, and that’s one of the main things I focus on in Couples Counselling.

For more information, see the Couples Counselling page.

A note about confidentiality

Confidentiality is not the same as keeping things secret. I will not divulge anything which you might share, nor will I keep records which might identify people about whom we might speak. I will reserve the right, however, to breach such confidentiality where others might be harmed or where drug abuse is taking place, to give two examples. This is in line with the ACC guidelines and forms part of my ethical code of practice.

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Here are just some of the issues which people come to counselling to talk about:

  • Bereavement and Grief
  • Depression
  • Forgiveness
  • Low Self-Esteem
  • Questions of Faith
  • Relationship Issues
  • Trauma

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